Mom and Dad

If I was a young lad growing up in the USA, I would not be able to refer to my parents as mom and dad or mother and father because those pronouns are gender specific and according to our COUNTER CULTURE culture, those pronouns are no longer appropriate...  At 73 years of age, I find this approach to referencing to parents rather absurd to say the least.  Using the term parents, folks, guardians, or whatever eliminates the intimacy between parents and their children.   Boys and girls are inappropriate as well and we should no longer distinguish between females and males...  but, the fact remains that they are different and will always be different... especially physically.

AND...  since they are physically different, males and females wear different clothes...  and, those clothes in particular is going to differentiate between the two genders.  However, there are a few males who want to be females and exercise that desire by taking female steroids to create breasts or have surgery for implants.  This is their choice...  but, once they have these breasts, can these males now use the female restrooms in public?

What if, a male who wants to be a female, also wants to play female sports...  does his male body give him the advantage over his female teammates?  And if the courts says YES...  he can do this...  what then are the rights for the females who have been put at a disadvantage?