Arabian camels were seen swimming in the Arabian Sea to Masirah, an island off the coast of Oman where camels frequently go to forage. They are known to travel back and forth regularly, approximately 10 km each way .-
I personally prefer living in a house to living in an apartment because of the uninsulated walls allowing noise to easily pass through them. However, I don't need that much more space than what an apartment provides...
1,200 square feet is plenty of room as long as it is divided appropriately that is to say... to my tastes.
I would like to have one large room that is used for a kitchen, an eating area, and a livingroom.
There needs to be a guest bathroom just in case company shows up or we have decided to entertain another couple.
This area (hidden area) would include a pantry and a laundry room.
The master bedroom needs to be large enough to hold a king-size bed and a night table on either side as well as adequate chests of drawers for clothes.
There needs to be a walk-in closet large enough to hang clothes for two people and a bathroom with a shower that is handicapped accessible.
Two other bedrooms are required, one would be a guest bedroom while the other would be a room for cats.
While there is a need for a two car garage, eventually there would only be one car... but the garage would need to accommodate lawn maintenance equipment.
A separate building could be brought in for storage.
There is no need for a basement or a second floor as everything should be on one floor.
The amount of land associated with the house should be 1/2 acre or less.
While we currently have an above ground pool, deck, gazebo, and hot tub, none of that would be necessary once we reach the age of 80 which is only 5 years away.
Right now, I use the pool to exercise by walking around the inside circumference to strengthen my back due to recent back surgery... and see no need for a pool later in life.
Any extra land would have to be mowed but part of it could be turned into a vegetable garden by constructing a few 12 feet by 12 feet boxes into which potting soil could be placed along with plants. Easy to maintain and harvest.
There would be a need for a WIFI connection but we would not connect to cable or have a landline telephone. Our one vehicle would more than likely be an all-electric vehicle that we would charge at night and only drive locally.
I doubt by the age of 80 we would be making any trips to Myrtle Beach, SC for a vacation. If we did vacation, it would be a cruise and we would fly to Florida and have a relative take us to the airport and pick us up.
As we get older and no doubt this will happen to you as well, but you no longer need the status of a large house, a fancy/expensive vehicle, or wear the latest fashion styles.
Money does not always make life happy... I can sit on the back porch with friends, enjoying conversation and coffee... and feel very content...
When one has a little wealth... all they really think about is keeping that wealth and trying to get more... How does that really make anyone happy?
In high school I never studied and was able to maintain a 2.75 GPA which is more than a C+ but less than a B-... it was not good enough to get me into the best colleges or universities but it was good enough to get me into college. In college I maintained a 3.75 GPA with just a little bit of studying... but, when I graduated from college and got my first job as Executive Director of a non-profit, neither my high school education or my college education gave me the knowledge to do the job for which I was being hired.
There was no training manual for the job nor was there anyone I could ask for guidance as to how to do the job... I had to learn how to do the job on my own and through trial and error and hope that the errors were large enough to get me fired.
I was responsible for a million dollar budget, 12 member organizations who looked to me for guidance, directly supervised 10 employees and a cadre of volunteers that amounted to about 500 annually. I was also responsible for all monthly activities, developing new programs, all advertising and public relations, and guided the board of directors regarding all fund raising efforts.
The board of directors hired me and did not care about my GPA or what classes I had taken, they only cared about my ability to ACHIEVE RESULTS.
I worked 15-18 hour days including Saturdays and kept this job for 8 years. While working for this organization, I attended grad school on the weekends (all day Saturday/Sunday) and after 2 years (66 hours) received an MBA with a focus in Strategic Planning.
I also received a divorce from my wife who had enough of my career and moved to another state to begin a new life...
My employers in this new state did not care about my degrees or my grades or my divorce... all they cared about was my ability to achieve results and expected me to work whatever hours I needed to work to achieve those results...
In 2015, I retired without a gold watch or even a THANK YOU, after working 45 years in this crazy marketplace environment... And, once I retired, I did not care what I did or how long it took me to do it, as long as I ACHIEVED RESULTS...
When I was a child, a teenager, and a young adult, the middle of July signified that the summer was half over... the summer months were considered to be June, July, and August. The warmth started in May and the coolness started in September.
From middle age to a senior citizen to being retired, our climate has substantially changed... We can have t-shirt and shorts weather through December... and, instead of the warmth starting in May, it can start as early as the middle of March, but typically it is now April.
Our winter, at least in the Tennessee Valley only lasts January, February, and March and of those 12 weeks, really cold frigid weather may be around 2-4 weeks at best. Of course, these are not absolutes, so there could be a lot of variances.
So, even though it is the middle of July, my sandals, t-shirt, and shorts attire will be continuing for many weeks. In fact, I cannot really remember the last time I had on a pair of hard shoes... it's got to go back prior to 2015 when I was working...
Talking about hard shoes is misleading because my nephew turned me on to wool shoes made by Allbirds... I have a pair of lace-up wool shoes and a pair of slip-on wool shoes like loafers that I wear to substitute for hard shoes in the winter because I don't need to wear socks.
Wearing wool shoes is like wearing slippers and I cannot imagine ever wearing a pair of hard shoes again. In fact, I wore my wool shoes to a funeral a couple of months ago... and, no one paid attention to the kind of shoes I was wearing, but if they did, I did not see them so what the hell...
In 31/2 months, I will have completed my 15th year of living with cancer specifically non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma (SLL), and my 10th year of living with another cancer specifically Accrual Lentiginous Melanoma that spread from my left foot to my left groin to the left side of my neck. I have had over 150 infusions (that included both chemotherapy and immunotherapy drugs), two surgeries, and 6 radiation treatments. Currently, I have a CT scan every 3 months as my cancers are unpredictable.
There were times when I wanted to die because I was vomiting so much and trips to the ER with infusions of Zofran were the only cure. There were times when I did not feel that I had cancer at all and none of my treatments caused my hair to fall out. However, the treatments not only screwed up my thyroid but caused me to be susceptible to basal cancers and squamous cancers several of which I have had surgically removed in a clinic.
Because of pre-treatment steroids to keep down sickness, I gained 30 lbs of weight over a 10-year period of time that I have subsequently lost. However, I am experiencing extreme fatigue, loss of appetite, anxiety, and mild depression, along with anemia, low to non-existent immunity, and night sweats that are so profound that in many cases I sweat through a bathrobe that I have put on because my sheets were completely wet around my chest and mid section.
There is something comforting about still being alive to complain...
In 2009/2010, I went to NYC 3 times to have stents put into my heart arteries instead of having a triple bypass. An angioplasty in 2022 revealed that the stents were still pristine and doing exactly what they were supposed to be doing... although, I believe my diet has supplemented their effort, as I stopped eating red meat at age 60, concentrating on vegetables, fish, chicken, and legumes that some people might refer to as beans. I especially like black beans, white beans, pinto beans, and lentils.
Five weeks ago, I had back surgery to fuse L2-L3-L4-L5-S1 together and while the pain from the actual surgery was minimal, learning how to walk again has been a real pain in the ass. I was told that I should see significant results by week 12... and, I hope that is the case because my results at week 5 SUCK. I can only walk unaided for about 10 minutes. I cannot walk up a staircase without using the handrail to pull me up... but, I can walk down just fine. I just started standing in one place without discomfort and just started being able to stand erect without bending over. I still cannot put on socks, tie my shoes, or lift anything over 12-15 pounds.
Interestingly, I can walk in a pool unaided and have done so for over an hour without getting tired. However, the results do not translate 100% when I am out of the water. It seems that my back muscles are having to learn all over again to help me walk. Also, walking any distance today is a huge chore and I find myself expending a lot of energy that I never needed to expend before. If I walk around the track once at the Community Center which is 1/16th of a mile, my t-shirt is soaked with perspiration and I feel rather exhausted... both sensations are not normal for me.
I consented to the surgery at 74 because I figured it would be harder to recover the older I became. It was only about 3-4 months ago that this even became a problem. I woke up one morning and after getting out of bed found that I had difficulty walking and that pain shot down both my legs from my butt. It was 6 weeks before I could see the orthopedic specialist and his diagnosis was later confirmed by an MRI, but he told me up front that this was old age... and, if I had not been as healthy and active as I was, it would have been worse...
Hell that was comforting...
9% Inflation... what asshole caused this to happen?
I realize that I may not be the sharpest knife in the drawer, but I am also aware that 9% is the highest inflation has been in over 40 years... and, I am reconsidering just who the hell I am going to vote for in November... I am an independent so I don't have the kiss the asses of the Democrats or the Republicans when it comes time to cast my vote... I just have to look at the way things around me are going and then see which party is in power and vote in favor of the opposite party.
That's pretty damn simple if you ask me...
If the country is doing well, I vote for the party in power but if it is doing poorly, like now, then I vote the other party... that way I can tell them to kiss my ass like they want me to kiss theirs...
Thanks to the policies of Joe Biden and the Democrats...
So, how do middle class Americans deal with this shit?
![]() |
| Jerome Powell - Bank of America |
I have watched several cooking shows on Hulu and prior to leaving Charter on cable and while I found them to be interesting, I did not have my pots and pans and utensils ready and waiting so I could cook along with them. I have gotten ideas on what to cook with what, but other than that, I am pretty much cooking on my own. I used the internet a lot to learn what spices should be used or how to set the oven temp and time, and aside from that, I am pretty much on my own.
I have cooked a variety of loaves of bread including baguettes, doughnuts, cakes, pies, lasagna, spaghetti, soups of all sorts, omelets, quiches, and casseroles. From my perspective, recipes while providing a framework are not necessarily meant to be followed. I typically combine whatever I think will go together based on past experience and toss in a couple of extra items for shits and giggles.
I seldom use red meat but when I do it is usually beef that I cook a long time so that it can be shredded. However, my wife showed me today how I could put the cooked meat in a small hand grinder and after a couple of pulses have shredded beef... cutting down on my cooking time.
So, my meats are usually turkey burgers, turkey hotdogs, turkey sausage, chicken, and some kind of fish like cod, tuna, orange roughy, or salmon. I love veges and pretty much always use, bell peppers, mushrooms, onions, green onions, beans (black, white, pinto, lentils), peas, split peas, sweet potatoes, potatoes, spinach, cabbage, garlic, squash, broccoli, cauliflower, carrots, and zucchini.
My goto spices are pepper, sea salt, basil, oregano, chives, parsley, dill, and paprika. I also use honey mustard, ketchup, A1, soy sauce, and seasoning sauce. I use basmati rice and angel hair pasta as fillers.
My equipment is a gas stove top and oven as well as a portable electric grill top for one pot, an instapot, and a multi-purpose air fyer.
The downside to my cooking experience is that I have limited experience on an outside gas grill and when anything is cooked outside then my wife does the cooking.
The reason I got into cooking was that in 2015 when my wife and I retired, she informed me that she was no longer cooking as part of her retirement package... so, if I wanted anything to eat, I had to do my own cooking. And, that is how it began...
In the first few years of her retirement, she cooked Thanksgiving and Christmas meals and if anyone was coming to our house for dinner but nothing else...