Friday, November 27
Still Applicable Today
Chasing the promise of freedom and hope
Came to this country to build a new vision
Far from the reaches of kingdom and pope
Like good Christians, some would burn the witches
Later some got slaves to gather riches
But still from near and far to seek America
They came by thousands to court the wild
And she just patiently smiled and bore a child
To be their spirit and guiding light
And once the ties with the crown had been broken
Westward in saddle and wagon it went
And 'til the railroad linked ocean to ocean
Many the lives which had come to an end
While we bullied, stole and bought our a homeland
We began the slaughter of the red man
But still from near and far to seek America
They came by thousands to court the wild
And she just patiently smiled and bore a child
To be their spirit and guiding light
The blue and grey they stomped it
They kicked it just like a dog
And when the war over
They stuffed it just like a hog
And though the past has it's share of injustice
Kind was the spirit in many a way
But it's protectors and friends have been sleeping
Now it's a monster and will not obey
The spirit was freedom and justice
And it's keepers seem generous and kind
It's leaders were supposed to serve the country
But now they won't pay it no mind
'Cause the people grew fat and got lazy
And now their vote is a meaningless joke
They babble about law and order
But it's all just an echo of what they've been told
Yeah, there's a monster on the loose
It's got our heads into a noose
And it just sits there watchin'
Our cities have turned into jungles
And corruption is stranglin' the land
The police force is watching the people
And the people just can't understand
We don't know how to mind our own business
'Cause the whole worlds got to be just like us
Now we are fighting a war over there
No matter who's the winner
We can't pay the cost
'Cause there's a monster on the loose
It's got our heads into a noose
And it just sits there watching
America where are you now?
Don't you care about your sons and daughters?
Don't you know we need you now
We can't fight alone against the monster
Our Changing World: The Enemies of our Enemies
because our world will soon belong to them from an economic and military standpoint... even though the USA will remain a world power and leader... it will just no longer have its ON THE TOP image.
- China has the largest military in the world
- China has the strongest economy as far as Purchasing Power Parity is concerned
Since the USA is a prominent GLOBAL MILITARY POWER and PRESENCE, favoritism and the need for protection and security will lean towards the EAST and CHINA. And... while I am not an expert on these matters, it seems only logical that this will follow... especially since the monies of the US will be tied up in social programs and preventing global warming.
New jobs will be created and this is good but it will not strengthen the military nor will it leave much money left over to help and/or protect our allies and neighbors.We simply will not have the money to do both unless we borrow money or devalue our own dollar...
As the USA changes so too will the rest of the world... If and when the USA decides to reduce its military, then we will no longer be in a position to fight wars in other countries... which is perfectly fine with me and many others... but, this change of attitude will push these countries into a different direction and they will no doubt come under the protection of the Chinese Government along with the help of Russia and more than likely most of the countries in the Middle East who HATE the USA for pushing their way of life on them.
Economists predict that the GLOBAL ECONOMY will shift dramatically in the direction of the EAST sometime between 2030 and 2050 as the population shifts into that direction as well forcing the need to have economic development.
Americans will be better off and the rest of the world will NO LONGER NEED THEM... and it is at this point-in-time when the enemies of our enemies will no longer support us.
Black Friday
The term BLACK FRIDAY has nothing to do with Racism, BLM, ANTIFA, Blacks or the killing of black by police officers, African Americans, or People of Color (who were formerly referred to as Colored People which they believed to be distasteful)... it has to do with economics and the business of economics as it applies to our American Society which encompasses ALL PEOPLE not just whites, Asians, Hispanics, Latinos, Native Americans, or Blacks... OR SO WE THOUGHT... BUT, according to Britannica,
It is believed by many that the term Black Friday derives from the concept that businesses operate at a financial loss, or are “in the red,” until the day after Thanksgiving, when massive sales finally allow them to turn a profit, or put them “in the black.” However, this is untrue.
A more accurate explanation of the term dates back to the early 1960s, when police officers in Philadelphia began using the phrase “Black Friday” to describe the chaos that resulted when large numbers of suburban tourists came into the city to begin their holiday shopping and, in some years, attend Saturday’s annual Army-Navy football game. The huge crowds created a headache for the police, who worked longer shifts than usual as they dealt with traffic jams, accidents, shoplifting, and other issues.
Within a few years, the term Black Friday had taken root in Philadelphia. City merchants attempted to put a prettier face on the day by calling it “Big Friday.”
The phrase “Black Friday” to signify a positive boost in retail sales didn’t grow nationwide until the late 1980s, when merchants started to spread the red-to-black profit narrative. Black Friday was described as the day stores began to turn a profit for the year and as the biggest shopping day in the United States. In truth, most stores saw their largest sales on the Saturday before Christmas.
In recent years, Black Friday has been joined by other shopping holidays, including Small Business Saturday, which encourages shoppers to visit local retailers, and Cyber Monday, which promotes shopping online.
Historically, Black Friday has yet another connotation, one unrelated to shopping. In 1869 Wall Street financiers Jay Gould and Jim Fisk attempted to corner the nation’s gold market at the New York Gold Exchange by buying as much of the precious metal as they could, with the intent of sending prices skyrocketing. On Friday, September 24, intervention by President Ulysses S. Grant caused their plan to fall apart. The stock market instantly plummeted, sending thousands of Americans into bankruptcy.
OUR INABILITY TO LOVE OTHERS: Sound of Silence... by
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Hello darkness, my old friend
I've come to talk with you again
Because a vision softly creeping
Left its seeds while I was sleeping
And the vision that was planted in my brain
Still remains
Within the sound of silence
In restless dreams I walked alone
Narrow streets of cobblestone
'Neath the halo of a street lamp
I turned my collar to the cold and damp
When my eyes were stabbed by the flash of a neon light
That split the night
And touched the sound of silence
And in the naked light I saw
Ten thousand people, maybe more
People talking without speaking
People hearing without listening
People writing songs that voices never share
And no one dared
Disturb the sound of silence
"Fools" said I, "You do not know
Silence like a cancer grows
Hear my words that I might teach you
Take my arms that I might reach you"
But my words like silent raindrops fell
And echoed in the wells of silence
Within the sound of silence
Thursday, November 26
Giving Them What They Want
It’s a conversation we’ve had countless times in our house. It doesn’t matter what it’s about–the newest technology, the latest fad, the most popular shoes- it’s treacherous ground to add it to our want list so we can be like everyone else.
These five dangerous words are turning homes upside down. When we give our children everything they want (because everyone else has it), it speeds up their childhood: We have six year olds addicted to technology, carrying around their own ipods and iphones without limitations; eleven year old sons playing bloody battles of Assassin’s Creed over the Internet with strangers instead of playing ball outside; And 13 year old daughters shopping at Victoria’s Secret, wearing angel wings across their bums, looking far older than they are.
But worse than losing a generation of children, this choice breeds a nasty virus. Because maybe if we keep giving them everything they want, they might just drive a new car intoxicated and kill four people and be diagnosed with affluenza.
The psychologist testifying for the 16 year old boy who did just that, defined affluenza as this: children who have a sense of entitlement, are irresponsible, and make excuses for poor behavior because parents have not set proper boundaries.
Why are we saying yes to our children too early, too soon and pulling in the boundaries? I’m not sure, but I think it starts here:
- We don’t understand the future implications of giving them everything they want right now
- We want them to have the life we didn’t
- We are afraid to tell our children no because we know there will be backlash or because we think they will feel loved if we say yes.
- We want them to fit in with their peers because it’s hard to be different.
- We feel it’s often easier just to give in
- We struggle with a bit of affluenza ourselves
Free College Education : A Blessing in Disguise for The Rest of the World
University that has campuses locally even though the main campus is located elsewhere... These classes are 5 weeks in length, meeting once a week for 4 hours (6:00-10:00 pm)... and for this the student receives 3 credits of accredited college coursework... Personally, I am not sure if this is rigorous enough to satisfy 3 hours but the University which is managed by ACADEMIC PHD's perceives that this amount of time will suffice.
When I went to college in the 60's, our accredited college coursework hours were 45 plus outside reading, homework, and the writing of 10 page or 20 page papers.
BUT... times have changed and we have reduced competency down from 45 hours to 20 with minimal outside reading, minimal homework if any, and not really writing any papers at all but giving powerpoint presentations.
And, it is this type of education that we want to make free to everyone so that they can get a better job, make more money, participate in and enjoy the American Dream. The only problem with this logic is that a COLLEGE EDUCATION is already watered down just about so that any high school illiterate or dropout can pass... now, with making it free-of-charge, every idiot will run to these hallowed halls and be given (NOT EARN) a degree...
WHY IS THIS A PROBLEM?
- My Discipline
- My Determination
- Teaching Myself What I Needed to Know
- Taking Responsibility for my actions
- Asking the Right Questions
- Being Proactive rather than Reactive
- Accepting Constructive Criticism
- A Willingness to go above and beyond
- A Willingness to put my job above my family
- An Ability to communicate effectively both orally and written
- A Desire to give 110%
- An Eagerness to DRILL DOWN on every task
- A Desire to work at home
None of these personality traits do I see in my students since the year 2000 or for the last 20 years, two decades that we have allowed the course of education in this country to be altered...
So... here's my problem... we will have a huge labor force and marketplace of college educated workers WHO WILL NOT BE ABLE TO PERFORM and ACHIEVE GOALS and OUTCOMES... because they were never taught to think that way in college nor were they ever trained to perform on their own.
They were given an education rather than finding creative ways to EARN IT...
They will be college educated but doing the work done by high school graduates who never really learned how to perform... but they are DAMN GOOD AT MEMORIZING...
Our businesses, industries, and corporations are competing in a GLOBAL MARKETPLACE which is not like doing chores at home and receiving an allowance... it is a hell of a lot more serious than that... giving away a free college education is like telling the rest of the world, that the FUTURE ECONOMIC WEALTH IS THEIRS.
The Solitude of Happiness
Being in the presence of others is SECURITY not HAPPINESS.
- When we sleep we sleep alone.
- When we dream we dream alone.
- When we think we think alone.
- Our value to God is ours alone.
- Our birth and death is ours alone.
- Our contributions to life is ours alone.
- Our very survival may well depend upon the presence of others, but the life we lead and the body we command to our will is entirely OUR OWN.
My 73rd Thanksgiving
I don't remember much but I do remember the smell of tobacco as we drove under the bridge connecting two tobacco plants as well as my grandfather's house that had a porch around all four walls and a large dining room where my grandfather cut the turkey in a white shirt and tie as he had just returned home for lunch from the Drug Store he owned.
He was a skinny man with a withdrawn face and his speech was guttural and barely discernable when he gave the blessing and after the meal he returned to work and the children went outside to play in the yard. I remember a family reunion inside a large building with 150 or so relatives who said how well they knew me and that they wished they could see more of me.
And, on Sunday we drove back home and I slept on a blanket in the back of our station wagon.
Other Thanksgivings at our home in Alexandria, VA are not remembered at all other than I know that they took place at a mahogany table with leaves that raised up on either side that would seat 8 people comfortably with two sitting on either side and 12 if we needed to but absolutely no more. My father's grace was short and more understandable and he would always boil the meat off the turkey bones from which he would make soup... a tradition (for some reason) that stayed with me.
No Thanksgivings during my first marriage are remembered other than I know that we seldom had them at home because we were always traveling to our parent's homes and sometimes the years were alternating and sometimes we had dinners with them both.
During my second marriage, Thanksgivings are much clearer as that now since both my parents are deceased we are always remaining at home... My father died in 2001 and my mother died in 2015, the year that both my wife and I retired.
I still do not remember the specifics of any of these days other than a turkey is cooked and served with rice, gravy, dressing, and a vegetable or two and maybe a dessert but there is never a guarantee. These days are spent with just the two of us... no one else joins... and, a blessing is never given before we eat our meal.
AND... the problems with most traditions is that the traditions at some point-in-time will always fade away for one reason or another giving one pause to wonder why the traditions started at all.
AND... while I do not remember what I was thinking last year, I am aware of my thoughts this year... and, I am most grateful that my body is above ground and that all my cancers are under control, that my damaged heart is beating firm and soundly, and that the rest of my body seems to be holding steady other than the fact that I bruise a lot and quite easily.
I have lost 20 of the 40 pounds I gained while on steroids taken prior to my chemo infusions but am still not as active as I used to be 13 years ago when all of this started.
I feel blessed nonetheless that I have been given a strong body that has been able to withstand all that it has been through and blessed as well as thankful that I have not lost my faith but that it grows stronger and stronger each day that I continue to live.
It is sad though that in a few weeks perhaps months, I will not remember what I did or thought this day and that it will become just another memory that has faded away... but was very much present and aware when it all happened.
The World Around Us
I have seen more than my fair share of failures although I am sure that there are many others out there who have failed more than I have failed simply because they never gave up trying... and, giving up trying happened often enough throughout my lifetime so far. I suppose I could blame giving up on my parents but that would not be quite fair... as one of their basic tenants when raising their children was instilling in them the need to never stop trying... however, the problem with that is that, in my particular case, my parents wanted me to become what they wanted me to become and did not let me become what I wanted to become or thought at the time that I wanted to become, especially since it did not agree with their values.
My first attempt to become what I wanted to become came while I was being tutored on percussion instruments: snare drum, base drum, cymbals, etc. My tutor said I had a natural talent and offered me a job playing in a JAZZ BAND in Atlantic City, NJ one summer but my parents refused to let me go because I might get involved with drugs, alcohol, and sleazy women.
My second attempt to become what I wanted to become came shortly thereafter when I wanted to study classical and modern dance in the hopes of becoming a professional dancer. This effort was immediately quashed because artists did not make much money and typically turned into drug addicts.
I immediately stopped my outward interest in the arts and turned inward and convinced myself that if I was going to resist becoming what my parents wanted me to be... then I did not want them accusing me of becoming simply what I wanted to be... so, I did not give them what they wanted nor did I give myself what I wanted... leaping off into a completely different area altogether...
This was accomplished by allowing myself to flunk out of college, become employed as a messenger of documents that eventually lead to me enlisting in the Navy to avoid being drafted into the military since I had lost my college deferment and the Vietnam War was at its PEAK.. no one in our family had ever been an enlisted... only officers... this pretty much cut the cord between my parents and I.
My journey through life put me on a path of my own choosing and a path that was not always easy and left me in situations where I was able to EXPERIENCE THE UNDERBELLY OF THE WORLD AROUND US... the dark side of life... and, I don't necessary mean drugs and alcohol... but the side of the worker who is forced to live paycheck to paycheck... never getting ahead no matter how hard or long they work.
These are the people that build the roads and bridges, the interstate highways and tunnels, the building and houses, and the factories that build our cars and appliances. These people have simply accepted who they are and who or what they will never be... outside of maybe a supervisor one day or a section leader.
Most of these people have strong Christian Values but don't try to force their beliefs on others and they keep their faith to themselves as any family problems that may arise from time-to-time. They got to work sick because they cannot afford to take time off to go to the doctor. They don't save their money because there is none left over to save. They take their vacation by staying at home and working on projects around the house. They have no need for budgets because they spend what they have on what they need and work overtime if there is ever a shortfall at the end of the month.
Most of us with COLLEGE DEGREES never see these people and when and if we do, we have no idea what they might be going through and if we did, probably would not care because they are not our problem... being the self-centered creatures we are, greedy for more and always trying to figure out how to work less while generating more income... THE GREAT AMERICAN WAY.
Maybe one day when you finally retire... you will take the time to finally notice the world around you and not just see what you have missed, but understand that this is the world that you created and that you have allowed to perpetuate itself during your lifetime.
Wednesday, November 25
On The Back Porch
The round thermometer inside the porch reads a warm 70 degrees but I just cannot believe it is that warm today, although I feel rather pleasant sitting here in a t-shirt and my pajama bottoms which is all I seem to be wearing these days since I don't leave the house much. And, even if this COVID disease was not upon us like it was, I doubt that I would be leaving home anymore often than I am now as there is really no place that I want to go.
During the first few years of my retirement, my wife and I traveled all over the place, going somewhere for a week (sometimes longer) every other month... sometimes, we would drive our car... sometimes, we would use our frequent flyer miles from using our American Express Card and fly, and sometimes, we would drive to Florida and take a cruise. BUT... after just a few days of being in another location and despite the sights and sounds and restaurants, we had a keen desire to simply return home.
Why spend the money if you go somewhere and wish that you were HOME...
On the porch with me is our overweight yellow cat... overweight, not because of eating too much per se but because of all the steroids he's had to take due to his allergies that were causing him to sneeze and cough from lung congestion... inside the house, we have two more cats, one yellow as well and has the personality of a typical cat or what one might think a typical cat should be like, and one Siamese that is not your typical cat at all, but is a typical Siamese literally HOWLS when he wants something, is very jealous and possessive... and, who does not like being picked up or put into a cage... which is all very interesting especially because he has asthma and must get a steroid shot too about every 90 days or so.
He has a tendency to be cold and have a heating pad under a thin blanket on which he lays on days like today, when according to him, it is a little chilly, especially when there are clouds in the sky and no sunshine.
The YETI metal coffee cup I have holds 3 cups of coffee and keeps it warm for at least a couple of hours which as far as I am concerned is not bad. I take this cup full of coffee and leave it in the car when I go to see the doctor or when I have my cancer treatments which usually lasts 3 hours maybe a little bit more... and, when I return to the car, the coffee inside is still very much warm and I drink it on the return drive rather than stopping.
One last item before I return inside since my laptop battery is rapidly declining and that is the KODI box that I purchased for about fifty bucks. It easily attaches itself to a WIFI connection, and offers free movies, TV shows, and NEWS outlets many of which you have on CABLE if you are willing to pay the monthly fees. It is a way of saving money iffen you need to... and as far as I am personally concerned, I hate paying a fee for television service that used to be FREE... but, that's just me.
Just a Few or Only ONE
- How many Generals are there?
- How many Commanders and Chiefs?
- How many Bill Gates, Steven Jobs, or Warren Buffets?
- How many CEO's can there be for one company?
- How many millionaires or billionaires?
- How many geniuses or prodigies?
- How many Jesuses?
- How many managers and supervisors?
- How many ministers or priests for a church?
- How many Popes at one time?
- How many Kings or Queens?
- How many Vice Presidents, Mayors, or Governors?
- How many boat Captains?
THE AMERICAN DREAM: Collective Equality
Is the American Dream available to everyone in terms of a COLLECTIVE EQUALITY as it so states in our Declaration of Independence, the US Constitution, and the Bill of Rights?
Let me give you examples, and you can make up your own mind...
1. Everyone has the right to an education including college but does everyone have the right to make the same grade of "A"? Is everyone blessed with the same amount of intelligence and if the "A's" get you a better job then there will never be equality in terms of level of employment. And, what about those that have more intelligence and can get into the better schools, how does one justify educational equality in that sense... but yes, I suppose you do have the right to attend.
THE AMERICAN DREAM: Individual Rights and Freedoms
Do you really think that we actually have individual rights and freedoms in the United States of America as it so states in the Declaration of Independence, the US Constitution, and the Bill of Rights?
If you were to ask the BLACKS about this question, they would say NO faster than stink on shit and try to force you out of the way while they try to reclaim what the WHITE MAN CRACKER stole from them thinking themselves a little bit better than the Native American regarding their suffering during slavery and in their opinions well beyond.
If you were ask the POOR WHITE TRASH that live in trailer parks and work as janitors and on maintenance crews and who build our highways and roads and they would also say NO faster than stink on shit as well because they feel that the system is rigged against them because of who they are and where they were born and what they have to do to earn a living.
If you were to ask the immigrant who migrated into this country either legally or illegally and they would say a resounding YES quicker than stink on shit because it is a hell of a lot better than it was in the land that they left and they do mind doing anything at all because anything in the USA is better than being back home.
If you were to ask the Southern Rednecks and Hayseeds who had no choice but to enter into military service and fight and die for this country, they would say a unanimous NO quicker than stink on shit because of all the Confederate Statues that are being taken down because the BLACKS are bitchin'.
Individual rights and freedoms are a tricky business for our federal government and courts who are trying to please everyone who has the ability to INFLUENCE THEM and act accordingly in their re-elections, especially since this is a Democracy and the people elect who will govern them... and, in the struggle for political power, we will always have WINNERS and LOSERS regardless of what the Declaration of Independence, the US Constitution, or the Bill of Rights says...
SO... the AMERICAN DREAM can NEVER TAKE PLACE for EVERYONE...
THE AMERICAN DREAM: Prosperity, Success, and Happiness
The American Dream is a national ethos of the United States, the set of ideals (democracy, rights, liberty, opportunity and equality) in which freedom includes the opportunity for prosperity and success, as well as an upward social mobility for the family and children, achieved through hard work in a society with few barriers. In the definition of the American Dream by James Truslow Adams in 1931, "life should be better and richer and fuller for everyone, with opportunity for each according to ability or achievement" regardless of social class or circumstances of birth.
The American Dream is rooted in the Declaration of Independence, which proclaims that "all men are created equal" with the right to "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness." Also, the U.S. Constitution promotes similar freedom, in the Preamble: to "secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity". SOURCE: Wikipedia
- Liberty and Freedom
- Individual Rights
- Collective Equality
- 53.5% of the Households in AMERICAN have income UNDER $75,000
- Average Cost of Living in USA (excluding rent) per family - $48, 540 per year
- Average Rent for a 2 bedroom apartment $1200/month or $14,400 per year
- Total average annual cost per family per year $62,940
The Day Before Thanksgiving and All Is Not Well
Is it not a tad ARROGANT to think of US citizens as the only AMERICANS or is it because we are a tad ignorant and don't know our history as well as we thought we did when graduating from high school?
AND... now we are at the day before Thanksgiving and we are going to over eat and over indulge in alcohol and in those states where marijuana is legal we are going to over indulge in that as well, without the slightest consideration for the history of the holiday for the most part.
US American citizens care more about what their country can do for them rather than caring about what they can do for their country... The more we have social programs the less that our citizens do for their country and the more we expect the wealthy to pay for our THANKSGIVING DINNERS.... which is actually a metaphorical statement as to what is happening in the US of A.
AND... as a senior citizen... one could say that I don't much care because of what is going to happen to you alone because by then I will be dead... but, the more we expect our country through the wealthy to do for us, the WEAKER we as a people become. Not weaker in terms of money or technology or healthcare but weaker MENTALLY and that MENTAL WEAKNESS will start to erode and lessen our LOYALTY to the country that gave us all we have.
ALL IS NOT WELL IN THE US of A not because we do not have the natural resources, the technology, the innovations, the freedoms, and the WEALTH but because we are losing sight of our EDUCATION and KNOWLEDGE and will soon lose our freedoms because of our bliss and military weaknesses.
- CHINA has the largest military in the world today... the USA is second...
- INDIA has the next largest military and then there is
- NORTH KOREA...
- RUSSIA is in there somewhere but because it is no longer the USSR it is much smaller and then there is the
- MIDDLE EAST and all the rag heads in that area as US American military personnel calls them
Back in the USSR
- Russia
- Ukraine
- Georgia
- Belorussia
- Uzbekistan
- Armenia
- Azerbaijan
- Kazakhstan
- Kyrgyzstan
- Moldova
- Turkmenistan
- Tajikistan
- Latvia
- Lithuania
- Estonia
The post-Soviet states, also known as the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Republics and in Russia as the near abroad , are the 15 sovereign states that emerged and re-emerged from the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics following its breakup in 1991, with Russia being the primary de facto internationally recognized successor state to the Soviet Union after the Cold War while Ukraine, by law, proclaimed that it is a state-successor of both the Ukrainian SSR and the Soviet Union which remained under dispute over formerly Soviet-owned properties.
It's Rock and Roll Baby
- The Beatles — 183 million units
- Garth Brooks — 156 million units
- Elvis Presley — 146.5 million units
- Eagles — 120 million units
- Led Zeppelin — 111.5 million units
- Billy Joel — 84.5 million units
- Michael Jackson — 84 million units
- Elton John — 79 million units
- AC/DC — 75 million units
- Pink Floyd — 75 million units
Tuesday, November 24
Teaching Oneself Not To Want More
NOT TO WANT MORE IS UNAMERICAN...
NOT TO BE GREEDY IS UNAMERICAN...
Yes... it is hard to believe that someone living in the US of A does not feel this way (see above)... but, let me assure you that I do and have felt this way for a long, long time.
My first job after college, I really did not care about making more than I needed to pay my bills and take a couple of week long vacations and a few extra presents for the Holidays and Birthdays; but, as my daughter increased in her age, I found myself wanting more so that I could give more to her...
That desire for GREED and WANTING MORE stayed with me until I was in my 40's and moved from the Piedmont of North Carolina to the Valley of East Tennessee and began to witness first hand that wanting more was not all that it was cracked up to be... and so, I gradually started cutting back and becoming debt free. My first selections were quitting smoking and drinking alcohol.
While it may seem quite obvious to you, it was not yet to me that wanting less allowed me to earn less and not be pressured to moving up the ranks so that I could move up the ladder and increase my income... although, there were still things that I thought I wanted or needed so money became a necessary evil.
UNTIL... at the age of 60, I was diagnosed with non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma and shortly thereafter had a serious heart attack due to heart arteries being blocked 100%, 90%, and 90% and reduced my ejection fraction to right around 20... now... many of you may not realize how serious it was... but, let me share what the Cardiologist told me... if I had not been so damn healthy and my heart created separate little blood vessels to bypass on their own the bad ones, I would not be alive today to tell my story.
- a new car every 5 years
- a bigger house
- a vacation home
- trips to Europe or Cruises
- new clothes or shoes
- concerts, sports events, or movies
- a whole lot of food from the grocery
- at the most expensive times
- I need my faith
- I need healthy 5 small meals a day
- I need my modest debt free home
- I need only reliable transportation
- I need enough income or savings to pay my must have bills
- I need access to the internet
- I need a laptop computer
- I don't need but have a cell phone
What Is Life Exactly?
Life is life and nothing more, I suppose... but, it means different things to different
people depending upon where one lives, one's financial means, and one's personality, motivation, and determination.
And, while that may not sound abundantly clear at first, let me try to explain.
Growing up in the South is different than growing up anywhere else even if you have the same parents and the same financial status because the South has different cultures than anywhere else... and those difference are not easily understood until one lives in Southern jurisdictions.
Similarly, growing up pretty much anywhere in the United States is different that growing up in Europe: Great Britain, France, Germany, Spain, Portugal, Italy, Russia, and countries from the former Soviet Union. It is also different growing up in South America, Canada, Africa, China, Asia, or Australia.
Each of these countries and/or locations have different: values, ethics, personalities, and integrities even though we are all human beings.
- Inside our bodies are the same as well as outside although we have different features
- We are all born and we all die
- We eat, defecate, and procreate
- We have spirits, minds, and thoughts although some are different and not so understandable
- We all have the instinct to survive and experience greed
- We are all susceptible to various diseases
- We all have the ability and capabilities to learn
- We all have skill albeit different
- some want power and fame
- some want wealth and glory
- Some want to be in the military and go to wars
- some want to be artists and musicians
- some want to be athletes and coaches
- some of us want to write while others want to read
- some want to control
- some want to be controlled
- some of us just want to be left alone
- some of us want what we can never have
- some of us have what we never wanted
- some of us have faith while others have spirituality





















