I am the only member of our parent's family that is dealing with serious health issues and while one could say that it is my fault... I would tend to agree with that in part because I did not know how to manage my stress... and, it is not managing my stress that caused me to have a heart attack about 13/4 yeras ago.
Prior to my heart attack, I had stopped smoking, stopped drinking alcohol, stopped eating red meat, sugars, and fried food s decade before my heart attack actually took place. Additionally, my blood pressure was low, my cholesteral was low, no family member with heart issues... so NO TYPICAL MARKERS that underscore a heart attack...
Therefore it must have been stress...
About this same time frame, I was diagnosed with non-Hodgkin's "B" Cell Lymphoma and five years after that I was diagnosed with Melanoma that spread from my foot to my groin to my neck. I am currently being treated for 2 cancers simultaneously and the meds do not seem to be fighting each other which is a good sign.
My healthcare costs are somewhere between $500,000 and $750,000 depending upon the various tests that I have to see if my cancers have spread. These tests are typically a CT or a PET scan that I received quarterly. I also have quarterly tests for my heart as well and since my PSA results are high, I have been seeing a Urologist and have had a biopsy of my prostate. Since my nuclear stress test for my heart showed a blockage, I have had a recent heart cath that actually revealed NO PROBLEMS at all... but, these tests are expensive.
My health is STABLE and that is why I have healthcare happiness...