Showing posts with label Today. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Today. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 27

How To Be Happy Alone


True happiness comes from within.

And while you can always turn to others for a mood boost, there's nothing quite like being content with your own company. That said, can you really be happy alone?

Yes, but it's all about perspective.

The word "alone" sometimes carries a negative connotation since many equate it to being lonely and, well, sad. However, that is simply not the case as the two words have completely different meanings.

“Feeling lonely is actually completely different from being alone. Loneliness is a feeling while being alone in a situation," Dr. Nina Vasan, MD, Chief Medical Officer at Real told TODAY.

With the right techniques, you may be able to get past this feeling of loneliness, whether you're single, going through a breakup or simply miles away from the people you love. “For example, if you’re by yourself but connecting to others through good communication or activities like volunteering, you don’t feel lonely," she said.

In fact, the ability to enjoy the joys of quality alone time may just be the greatest act of self-love. Not to mention being alone — whether by choice or circumstance — gives you time to be "introspective, creative, or engaged through activities like journaling, painting, reading a book or building something for your house."

Read on for expert-backed tips and tricks on how to be happy alone. Implement one (or all) of these techniques into your everyday life to remind yourself the happiness should always start and end with you. Who knows, you may even find that you're a better friend, partner and colleague because of it.  READ MORE...

Tuesday, April 28

Mornings

Slowly, is how I begin the day and after feeding the cats, it is time for coffee and a minute or two
of reflection as I swallow the hot liquid down into my body...

Gradually, my body responds and my eyes begin to absorb the light, reflecting all the colors of the day that form my environment... 

It is a time of careful awakening, realizing there is another world outside the dreams and fantasies of the night and the sleep that is sometimes, so hard to acquire...

Today is never another day like yesterday or tomorrow but always today, providing me with new opportunities, new chances, affording me new beginnings to take this day and make the most of it while it lasts and while I am mentally capable enough to embrace it...

Saturday, April 25

Yesterday... Today... Tomorrow...

7:30 am Friday to 7:30 Saturday was Yesterday                 24 hours

7:30 am Saturday to 7:30 am Sunday is Today                   24 hours

7:30 am Sunday to 7:30 am Monday will be Tomorrow      24 hours
                                                                                              72 hours

It is within these 72 hours that we consistently live our lives, reflecting, remembering, living, and planning and while many of us live on shorter time frames, this time frame has typically been the norm for Americans.

Yes, it is true that we schedule appointments with Doctors, Dentists, Optomologists, Hair Stylists and plan out birthdays, vacations, Christmas, Thanksgiving, and other holidays in advance of just looking at tomorrow, but other than those exceptions, Americans live in 72 hour or less blocks of time.

For businesses and industries, we look at rolling quarters, that is to day what did we do last quarter (yesterday), what will we do this quarter (today) and what are we planning for next quarter (tomorrow).

Some corporations might look out into the future for 18-24 months but those situations are RARE...

WHY?

  • Uncertainty of the future
  • Risks associated with doing something based upon that uncertainty
  • Doing something means committing resources
  • Resources mean:  money, materials, labor, time
Additionally...
  1. What many Americans do not know or have associated with this issue is the fact that the STOCK MARKET pays dividends every 90 days.
  2. Bonuses are predicated upon stock prices
  3. Actions are then predicated upon potential bonuses

In PSYCHOLOGY, this is called CLASSICAL CONDITIONING which means:  reinforce the desired behaviors...

Leaders of Industries are MANIPULATED by Boards of Directors just like children are manipulated by their parents...

I find this amusingly interesting.