I remember someone telling me that another person told them that
whatever it was that they did was done because this other person made them do it...
My first blush reaction and comment to this statement was THAT'S BULLSHIT FRED...
Of course, Fred was not his real name.... at least, not at the time.
NO ONE MAKES US DO ANYTHING... not even if they have a loaded firearm pointed at our heads... We make the choice to respond/react or do nothing.
But, if we did not do that, we would have been killed is the rebuttal, and yes that is true, but we all die eventually. If we die, we will miss out on all sorts of things... and, yes, that is true too. But, we did not have the choice of whether to be born or not either... and, had we had that choice, we may have decided not to be born...